How long sober before seeing child
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How long sober before seeing child
My husband has been in and out of rehab/recovery for over a year and continues to relapse. I'm in the process of separation and wondering if anyone knows a recommended timeframe for him to see our 4 yo daughter? My therapist says 30-90 days sober. Right now he's not in any treatment not even meetings. TIA
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I would lean towards the 90 days end of that. Free of substances isn't the same as sober. The longer time period, the more emotionally stable and less likely to say or do anything harmful, in my opinion. Maybe before that if it were supervised.
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My husband has been in and out of rehab/recovery for over a year and continues to relapse. I'm in the process of separation and wondering if anyone knows a recommended timeframe for him to see our 4 yo daughter? My therapist says 30-90 days sober. Right now he's not in any treatment not even meetings. TIA
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I did start the legal separation process but the lawyer is fighting for full custody also meaning I get to decide if I want drug testing and when he can visit. Visits would definitely be supervised. I'm trying to figure out more from a psychological stand point what's best for my daughter. He's been gone most of the past year and she only asks for him once in a while. Thanks for responding!
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I did start the legal separation process but the lawyer is fighting for full custody also meaning I get to decide if I want drug testing and when he can visit. Visits would definitely be supervised. I'm trying to figure out more from a psychological stand point what's best for my daughter. He's been gone most of the past year and she only asks for him once in a while. Thanks for responding!
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