Aggie812

This isn't about the addiction anymore. He cheated and that's reason enough to leave. I do not tolerate any of that!

Aggie812

So I packed up all of his belongings... he wants to stop by and pick them up. I do not want to see him.. I want his stuff out of here, but I don't know how to go about it without seeing him. Leave stuff on porch? Bags of clothes? I am mailing other paperwork.

SuzyMarie

I'd bag it up and leave it on porch if it won't get ruined or anything. No need to rehash anything with him, right?

Hawkeye13

Yep--put it on the porch and text him it's there.
Not your problem beyond that.

Wishing you a speedy recovery and a happy loving relationship in the future.

Vale

No problem. Take a break, a breather from the relationship ,
the treadmill of life. I totally understand---and I will wait
patiently until you get it together.

On second thought....nope.....I have a finite life and I am not
going to p**s it away on some "boy" who wants life to bend
to his short bus rules.

Those who insist that life play by their rules share one common trait----
they get SLAUGHTERED. And usually sooner rather than later.

The problem with tolerating an incompetent in the command staff of
your vessel (of life).....is that the other vessels are operating at varsity
strength and they aren't 'playing' at life.

The bullcrap game he is playing here is that he is some sort of prize
to be won------and worth waiting (indefinitely) for.

Let him have his 'break'.........chase all the 'recovering/battle damaged'
ladies he wants.

While you go find someone worth having. Someone who understands
how deadly serious life can (sometimes) be-----and has the guts to face
it head on.