She's 22...I know

Old 12-27-2014, 01:57 PM
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She's 22...I know

Woke up this morning to find my 22 year old daughter (she has psychiatric problems and drug hx.) gone and she posted on instagram she taking flight to sacramento from san francisco to meet someone she met on tumblr.
I am afraid she going into a den of drugs and prostitution and death.

Someone told me 2015 was going to be a magical year for me. I'm beginning to have doubts.
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Old 12-28-2014, 05:12 AM
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you found out from instagram ? how sad this is. I'm so sorry MUUNRAY. I will say a prayer for her and for you.
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Old 12-28-2014, 05:25 AM
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Muunray, I'm so sorry!! I know you must be so worried....your daughter, her safety and well-being, will be in my prayers.
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Muunray, prayers that she stays safe. I am so sorry. I am sure you are hurting . I hope this situation resolves safely soon.
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Dear Muunray,
I too am sorry this has happened.
I pray for her safety.
Please take care of yourself.
This dual disease takes no breaks.
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Old 12-28-2014, 12:26 PM
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now she has posted videos of her and that guy "hot railing" meth last night on tumblr. She messaged me this morning asking me why am I so paranoid all the time. She was clean of meth for 2 years and now has restarted. Told her she was going to a dark and deadly place with meth. So at least I know she is alive, but that's about it.
Thanks for the support, been crying already this morning about it.
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Old 12-28-2014, 12:42 PM
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This may seem like an extreme idea, but have you considered forwarding the video to the police in San Francisco?
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Old 12-28-2014, 12:59 PM
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God save our daughters from this merciless evil.

This one hits a little too close to home, literally, figuratively,
and temporally (Dec 28).

"I met him on the internet".

This medium is as effective a force multiplier for good as it is for evil.
If not this old man....I wish SOME old man (not a parent.....too close....
would be ignored) could put his arm around her shoulder and say in
deadly earnestness.....

"Run. Run like hell. These people are not your friends. They will use
you and trap you and suck the very life out of your soul. While you still
have the strength......Run like the wind"

My daughter departs for the second half of the initiation of a great life
adventure very soon. GOD DAMN the dark souls of those who would attempt
to separate our daughters from bright futures. Vale has two sides just like
everyone does. He has spent a sizeable chunk of his time on this Earth defending
freedom....free will...and the right of each soul to write their own life story free from
oppression or interference. That's the bright side. The dark side (which must always
remain muzzled if one truly respects human self determination)......is a soul that
would just love a few minutes "going North Korean" on the predators in one of these
"dens".

These monsters had better pray to their dark gods that there are no Dads in hell.
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Old 12-28-2014, 01:08 PM
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Dearest MuunRay, sending prayers that your daughter stays safe. At least she is still communicating with you albeit not a positive message. Please resist the temptation to send her money. It is so hard when the go "back out". I have walked this path for 4 years, always concluding that when I step away from the madness, it is the only way I can be sane!
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Old 12-28-2014, 01:37 PM
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Muunray, I am just now seeing this whole post/thread. Hugs to you. I wish I was there where she is so I could be the one to drag her away, though I've certainly tried that with my own child (yet here I am on a parent's support forum). But I will be praying! I trust that is, in time, more effective than all the lassoing I would try. Grace and peace to you.
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Old 12-28-2014, 01:39 PM
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By the way, I like and agree with Seren's suggestion.
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Old 12-28-2014, 01:50 PM
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Prayers you and your daughter, Muunray.
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Old 12-28-2014, 04:44 PM
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Munray, heart goes out to you--my daughter was in the court system in SF between Jan-June this year. Don't know an easy way to get her info into the system--or I would have tried...but it is a good idea. Having lived, worked, and in the past few years seen just how prevalent the drugs are--most people just walk by--we did get some support from the DA once she was in the superior court system...and I could also let you know the judge's name--as our 'luck' was getting that support--overall...SF is quite lenient to the drugs...there are so many--particularly in the tenderloin...but if you would like my info...PM me.
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Prayers for you and your daughter muunray.

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Old 12-28-2014, 09:12 PM
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So sorry for your heartbreak. I pray for you and a breakthrough for her.....
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I cant imagine the pain you must be feeling. Prayers for your daughter to come back home.
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Old 12-29-2014, 09:06 AM
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I am so sorry. I too agree with Seren, it may be the thing to save her life.

Tight hugs.
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Old 12-30-2014, 03:02 PM
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I have no idea where she is located in sacramento, do not know the person's name or address she went to. The videos are posted from phones. So you think just giving them link to the video on tumblr will be enough for the police in sacramento to follow up with?
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Old 12-30-2014, 05:33 PM
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she has psychiatric problems and drug hx
If I may ask, what has she been diagnosed with?
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Old 12-30-2014, 07:44 PM
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MR- I am so sorry. Are you attending any support groups. This is very difficult stuff and I am hoping that you have some kind of support. Its good that you have reached out to SR as these men and women have lived through what you are experiencing.

Please keep reading and helping you. Reach out to your higher power and pray that she will be ok. Sending prayer and hugs your way!!
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