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Old 08-28-2014, 12:10 AM
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How do you move pass a person that was suppose to love and protect you but did nothing but hurt you. Even when you logically know why and the obvious answers are screaming in your face. Why is moving forward and letting go of the bitterness, negativity, resentment so hard and why is it we still genuinely care for these destructive, selfish, coldhearted people.

FYI...my bf is a meth addict and through ups and downs, leaving and coming back to leave again seems to be the sick twistedness of my life, but that's my fault, cause I keep trying. Ugggg
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Originally Posted by BeautifulDisatr View Post
How do you move pass a person that was suppose to love and protect you but did nothing but hurt you. Even when you logically know why and the obvious answers are screaming in your face. Why is moving forward and letting go of the bitterness, negativity, resentment so hard and why is it we still genuinely care for these destructive, selfish, coldhearted people.

FYI...my bf is a meth addict and through ups and downs, leaving and coming back to leave again seems to be the sick twistedness of my life, but that's my fault, cause I keep trying. Ugggg
Well, have you considered not trying anymore?

Just because you care about someone doesn't mean you're supposed to stay with them no matter what. Perhaps you should give yourself permission to care and look after yourself first.
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