bcimkaela

I have realized so much in the past few days and I am so very thankful for all of you who share your lives with me. I am beginning to feel so much peace just understanding that there is nothing I can do to change my addicted husband. Even the things I was doing-that I felt like were "supporting" him- I am realizing are just clouding the truth. If he really wants it like he told me he does- he will do what is needed to accomplish that. It is not my responsibility. I can not change it, I can only make decisions based off the truth. As I allow him to choose for himself, I am able to see what he truly means by what he "says". Thank you all for pointing me further to this understanding. I feel like I can breathe again.