Spantoh

Tomorrow my SO has 75 days sober. Extremely proud.
Was wondering if I should give a hug/kiss and congratulate her like I have on 60 when she first arrived home or if I should wait until 90 days?

Seemingly silly question perhaps; but I just wanted to see if there was some sort of protocol, so to speak, regarding the 30 day intervals.

Thanks all,

Taking5

If your SO is going to AA or NA they recognize the 30 day intervals. I think it should stay there in those groups. Give your SO a hug if you feel like it, regardless of the 30 day intervals.

Spantoh

Taking,
Thanks. She is. I will just give an extra hard squeeze. I only ask because she has been talking about "staying strong" and the like and I wanted to recognize her effort and success up to this point.

MrJameEsquire

Give her a hug every day when she comes home from work.

neferkamichael

Spantoh, SO 75 days sober, bring it up? She is FANTASTIC. I think she deserves to be congratulated everyday. Rootin for the both of ya.

Spantoh

James,
I wish--we do not live together, sadly but I def will when I see her. Always do!

And thank you Nefer, I really appreciate your support!