Another positive post
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Another positive post
Since being "freed" from my AAXBF, just wanted to post the unexpected GOOD that has come from it before I shut my brain off for the night.
(1) I've slept well for the past week
(2) I have not contacted him in any way at any time
(3) My family has been amazingly understanding--very nice surprise!
(4) I've had more energy to focus on things I've been needing to do and I've
done them!
(5) I got a call to do some work for a company I haven't heard from in quite
a while. Also a nice surprise--it will keep my mind busy.
I truly believe in being thankful for things as you can tell! It isn't easy but I am determined! Y'all might get tired of my positive posts--lol!! Just trying to get something in there that's simplistic, uplifting yet real. It's such a head-job on all who experience it. Little things and baby steps, right?? Right!
(1) I've slept well for the past week
(2) I have not contacted him in any way at any time
(3) My family has been amazingly understanding--very nice surprise!
(4) I've had more energy to focus on things I've been needing to do and I've
done them!
(5) I got a call to do some work for a company I haven't heard from in quite
a while. Also a nice surprise--it will keep my mind busy.
I truly believe in being thankful for things as you can tell! It isn't easy but I am determined! Y'all might get tired of my positive posts--lol!! Just trying to get something in there that's simplistic, uplifting yet real. It's such a head-job on all who experience it. Little things and baby steps, right?? Right!
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Your positive focus is awesome, PeaceDove!
Our minds can easily get obsessed about things related to our addicts, so when we can redirect the mind to positive things, we'll definitely be better off!
Good for you for being an example of LIVE AND LET LIVE.
Your ex is doing his thing.
Now you are doing your thing.
That's fabulous!
And man -- I'm really happy for you that you're getting better sleep. It's such a critical piece of the puzzle for me. When I'm not rested, so many other things in my life just suck.
And yay for new work you can do for this company! I too am feeling the freedom and space in my mental world to get back into some work too so I'm right there with ya, girl.
~Sweet dreams~
Our minds can easily get obsessed about things related to our addicts, so when we can redirect the mind to positive things, we'll definitely be better off!
Good for you for being an example of LIVE AND LET LIVE.
Your ex is doing his thing.
Now you are doing your thing.
That's fabulous!
And man -- I'm really happy for you that you're getting better sleep. It's such a critical piece of the puzzle for me. When I'm not rested, so many other things in my life just suck.
And yay for new work you can do for this company! I too am feeling the freedom and space in my mental world to get back into some work too so I'm right there with ya, girl.
~Sweet dreams~
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