Boyfriend of 3 Years relapsed again.. need advice
The hospital crisis nurse called me to tell me home was the best place for him, with loving family support....I was conflicted......couldn't believe what I was hearing.....he charmed her too....'he's trying, he says he's not using, the sober living centres is gonna make it worse...blah,blah......after 2 hours sleep I was overwhelmed. I told her I needed time to think......so she convinced his brother to go back on his stand, and take him home for a couple days.
I know he's not coming back here. He got to make all the decisions now....im done with that and being manipulated.
I know he's not coming back here. He got to make all the decisions now....im done with that and being manipulated.
I suppose I don't blame them- for someone outside looking in, not knowing the full history of the insanity, they must have just seen a girl calling the cops on her boyfriend for no good reason... But it feels as real to me now as it did to me then. I kept all the messages from that night on my phone in case he really did decide to make that decision. He was saying those things with the explicit reason of hurting me, that's it.
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