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Old 04-17-2013, 11:01 AM
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Old 04-17-2013, 11:14 AM
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Congrats all the way around Zoso. There's a whole world of women who will treat you better than she did and appreciate you for your kind heart and intelligence. If I wasn't already married to my wonderful husband (and if I was a few years younger), I'd be asking what you were doing in a couple of weeks (after all the finals are done of course!)

You deserve a woman who appreciates all that you are and who will share your dreams.

Grab life with gusto and let her dwell in your past.

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Old 04-17-2013, 12:49 PM
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Sorry to hear you had to deal with this, though you seem to have a pretty good grasp on it. Blocking her is definitely necessary.
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Old 04-17-2013, 12:58 PM
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Hate she is still trying to "push your buttons" but good for you that you don't allow her too ~

best of luck on all your future endeavors!

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Old 04-17-2013, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted by walker328 View Post
Sorry to hear you had to deal with this, though you seem to have a pretty good grasp on it. Blocking her is definitely necessary.
A sense of humor when dealing with someone a few fries short of a Happy Meal is a necessity.

When my AXGF left me (and you can look in my post history to learn that bit of info), she said that she finally had grace and dignity. Which is hysterically funny.

But it also begs the question that if she's finally found grace and dignity, then what exactly compels her to contact me in this manner?

What's the answer? Because she's Borderline, and because she's an addict. For me, it's really that simple. And because of this, everything and anything is possible when dealing with the likes of her.

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Old 04-17-2013, 02:55 PM
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ZoSo,

Congrats only a couple more week and you are free (from school at least) haha and I just want to say thanks to you I to hope to be where you are in my recovery from my crazy ex, I have taken the step to get him out my life for good even if it means never being able to see my God daughter again. You are such an inspiration to me both personally and academically
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Old 04-17-2013, 03:07 PM
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You have here what I call one of God's strangely wrapped gifts.

She gave you the brush off in time for you to miss the chaos and graduate, and while her never ending drama goes on, you get new beginnings and a wonderful "happy ever after".

Perhaps you should send a "thank you" note? It's only good manners.
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Old 04-17-2013, 03:36 PM
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she just doesnt know how to go away does she? Jeez.
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Old 04-17-2013, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted by oooopps View Post
she just doesnt know how to go away does she? Jeez.
Unfortunately, no.

Like I said before, if things are so wonderful, what makes her think I:

a) want to hear about it, or
b) give a flying f**k

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Old 04-17-2013, 07:25 PM
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ZoSo,

Congrats only a couple more week and you are free (from school at least) haha and I just want to say thanks to you I to hope to be where you are in my recovery from my crazy ex, I have taken the step to get him out my life for good even if it means never being able to see my God daughter again. You are such an inspiration to me both personally and academically
You're too kind. Thank you.

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Old 04-17-2013, 09:06 PM
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Sorry you have had such drama today. Seems like instead of blocking her number, changing your number might be a better way to go.

She has texted you from different numbers many times. I remember once about a broken ankle or something and sent a picture of her foot ?? Even if you block this new number, if the pattern holds, she will only continue to text from new numbers. Look at the impact her text has had today, thoughts of her have been with you all day in one form or another. She is an ex girlfriend, and doesnt deserve space in your thoughts anymore.

Do you really want to hear about wedding showers, bachelorette parties, details of her wedding and honeymoon, picture of those things, and then later her new home, or announcement of a baby shower? It may never stop.

Its not fun to give out a new number, but a few group mails, and you will have it all covered, and her life wont cross paths with yours ever again.
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Old 04-17-2013, 09:28 PM
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I don't know what wins out - my pity for that poor unsuspecting sap your ex somehow wrangled into marrying her or my pulsating brain from all the electromagnetic RF jargon that has left me feeling completely dumb-feeling right now!
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Old 04-17-2013, 11:43 PM
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Zoso,I am so sorry for your loss.

She sounds like a keeper.Not too
late to drop EVERYTHING and chase
this PRIZE of a lady..............

(Sorry,I cannot find a smiley-face that
denotes extreme sarcasm!)

...just think of all the bliss (addict drama)
you missed out on!
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