Evey

Well glad to say i have FINISHED reading 'Codependent No More" and it has helped. I got the courage to return over 500$ worth of stuff i bought for "Our" apartment we were suppose to be moving into last week....( failed because the day we signed the lease my XABF wrote a check from a closed bank account resulting in our lease getting nulled and void )....."he didnt want 2 hurt my feelings by saying he wasnt ready for that step" but witnessed me go and drop so much money on things for a new apartment.....

IT WAS HARD......returning everything...i even cried a bit...the ladies at walmart and target felt bad for me...oh well sh*t happens....

Ill use the money on ME.....totally getting a mani/pedi tommorrow after i job hunt all day.

Yes im still hurting....but im POWERLESS over this person....NOTHING i can do.

except......---->move on
no point in trying to put the pieces back together of what coulda/shoulda happen.....leave the pieces on the floor and move the **** on!

staying strong !!! nar anon meeting soon

greeteachday

Good for you! That must have been difficult but such a big step! I'm sorry you are hurting but it sure sounds as if you are focusing right where you should. Hugs.

Ann

Evey, that must have been hard. Better days are ahead, you just wait and see.

Hugs and Hugs