He got out and went right to his old neighborhood... As I thought, my exabf was released from prison yesterday. Of course he called wanting to come see me. I held my position and told him he couldn't come over. After asking him a few questions, I found out he was right back in his old neighborhood with his drug using and selling family members. He tried to tell me he only went there because I wouldn't let him live with me and he had no where else to go which is untrue. All I said to him was what was he doing about getting help for himself. Of course I got vague answers. Oh well, he chose his path just like I chose mine. I'm so glad I found this site and was able to get the strength to not be drawn into his manipulation and sad stories! |
They amaze me, you know that you have nothing to do with him using again, they all deflect. I read somewhere like 65% who are drug addicts and released from prison, end up going right back there...I have no clue whether that % is right or not. Good for you, stay strong! |
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