Explain something to me please, Like I am a six year old..
Hey RedBaron,
I too, second Laurie's response.
Try not to do something that may cause you to regret it later. I understand you are very hurt...that is natural. I dont think selling her clothes for that reason alone is healthy for yourself though.
I too, second Laurie's response.
Try not to do something that may cause you to regret it later. I understand you are very hurt...that is natural. I dont think selling her clothes for that reason alone is healthy for yourself though.
Take the high road. In the end the only person you have to answer to is you. She never respected you. Respect yourself. Get her things back to her and never speak to or see her again. The anger will fade.
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Because two wrongs don't make a right.
Box it up and dump it on her front porch. Or her relative's front porch...friend...etc... Get rid of it and forget about it AND her.
Box it up and dump it on her front porch. Or her relative's front porch...friend...etc... Get rid of it and forget about it AND her.
The games people play come back to them someday.
All this was about her, never about you. It sucks. There is much anger to be had about it for sure. Those feelings will fade once you truly cut that person off, as many have said as well.
It's really all about stopping engaging and never doing it again in another relationship. This is done, her things are whatever- give them back to her, give them away, sell them if you must, but none of that will technically make this all go away.
Sure, we each find closure in our own way, but as we move on if things repeat again and again, and I'm not saying they will for you, but we must look at the only one standing there staring us back in the mirror.
Do whatever you have to do for you. She will never really care or give a damn, since A's only care about the addiction and being caught up in their own selves, no matter how much they seem to be sincere, nice, endearing, loving sometimes, etc.
Best of luck with whatever you do.
All this was about her, never about you. It sucks. There is much anger to be had about it for sure. Those feelings will fade once you truly cut that person off, as many have said as well.
It's really all about stopping engaging and never doing it again in another relationship. This is done, her things are whatever- give them back to her, give them away, sell them if you must, but none of that will technically make this all go away.
Sure, we each find closure in our own way, but as we move on if things repeat again and again, and I'm not saying they will for you, but we must look at the only one standing there staring us back in the mirror.
Do whatever you have to do for you. She will never really care or give a damn, since A's only care about the addiction and being caught up in their own selves, no matter how much they seem to be sincere, nice, endearing, loving sometimes, etc.
Best of luck with whatever you do.
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