I did it!!
 

I've been no contact with my abf for about 2 weeks now. Well, I received a letter today that just did it for me. I actually wrote a letter that I planned on sending out today to put an end to it. In the letter I got out of the mailbox today he had the nerve to call me a liar and try to insult me because he didn't receive money from me, I won't answer his calls nor write him back! I never told him I was going to send him any money. Well, that was it for me. He has acted this way in the past and I allowed it. I told him in no uncertain terms that I am done with him and he can not come live at my home when he is released next month. I felt like it needed to be said and made clear so that he doesn't have corrections calling me to see if he can live at my address and so that hopefully he won't show up at my door. The last letter I received just confirmed what I thought of him and needed to do. I feel so relieved to get it out!