Codie Moment
 

Ok so I did a really dumb thing... My cell phone is broken and my ex-ah had called to talk to our daughter and said his old one was in basement if I wanted to use it I could... Stupid ME!!! I got the phone and of course there are all these calls and msg to other woman/girls... We weren't together we were in the process of divorce... But he always said and says how he was not and will not be with other women as I am the ONLY one for him.. I knew it was all bs, but seeing that was like being slapped in the face.. Why did I look!!!!!!!!!!! And of course last night when he called I blasted him... We are divorced it is OVER why do i give a crap?!?!?!?!?!? And why am I looking into the past! DUMB GIRL!

Maybe looking at is as - your instincts were validated will help. It confirmed that you can trust them and that can be very empowering if you allow it to be.

The lesson is you can trust your yourself. You already knew you could not trust him, thats old news!!