one week and the call to come home...

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Old 01-09-2013, 02:56 PM
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one week and the call to come home...

Just came in. One week is all he has lasted.

Thankfully there are no definate plans yet. Maybe he will stick it out.

Ugggg...

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Old 01-09-2013, 03:03 PM
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Just stay focused and stay the path. You'll be okay.

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Old 01-09-2013, 03:22 PM
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I am confused, is in rehab or are you talking about letting him move back in with you?
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Old 01-09-2013, 03:27 PM
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He wants to leave the rehab program he is in and trying to come back here.

He is complaining about the program.

I informed him i am not open to him coming back.

But i have to start preparing if he does. Stinks cause i just paid bills for the month.. so i am out of money if i have to find a new place.

I am praying my HP assists in keeping him away.

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Old 01-09-2013, 03:28 PM
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What is your boundary??
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Old 01-09-2013, 03:28 PM
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That's very common early in rehab, often they settle back in if they find out coming home isn't an option at this state of recovery.
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Hopefully he will just stay there and you won't have to deal with any of it.

If he comes home despite you saying no, then stick to your boundaries and if anything illegal occurs don't hesitate to call the police.

No matter what happens, keep the focus on you.
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Old 01-09-2013, 04:15 PM
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Ok, thanks. He can always go to his parents, you don't have to let him back in the home...do you?

My exabf always wanted to leave rehab early, things were not going his way and he couldn't use, so he wanted to run away...but he stayed. However, as soon as he got out, he went back to using. He was in and out of rehab several times, did nothing for him except put a roof over his head.

Keep your resolve and your direction, moving forward to peace and happiness.
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