Mountain out of a molehill?
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Mountain out of a molehill?
Ok, so on Saturday AH had me meet him at his job and gave me part of the money he still owed me he of course was being all nicey nice then he asked a question out of the blue that I am not quite sure what to think about it.
I had a different checking account that had both of our names on it and my money was electronically transferred there I decided to close it and opened one in my name only. I told him when I did that. The account carried an accidental insurance policy on me.
he asked me if I had closed it and I said yes I told you when I did his response was so you don't have the accidental policy on you anymore?
I was speechless wth?
I had a different checking account that had both of our names on it and my money was electronically transferred there I decided to close it and opened one in my name only. I told him when I did that. The account carried an accidental insurance policy on me.
he asked me if I had closed it and I said yes I told you when I did his response was so you don't have the accidental policy on you anymore?
I was speechless wth?
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i think id be creeped out a little too Angie. might mean nothing but man that made me shiver of what it could mean. at the very least though, he knows you are not worth anything injured, so reality is, if he was thinking stupid thoughts, they have now been squashed.
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It is definitely creepy.
When I kicked my STBXAH out of the house he called a few days later inquiring about our life insurance. He said, that it didn't matter if something happened to me, that He would get all the money. I informed him that I had changed the beneficiary. He was livid. At that point in time, I hadn't changed it, but after that conversation, I did the very next day. I don't know if he had any sinister motives, but it did have me on edge for a while.
Dollydo is right, people in addiction do crazy things....
When I kicked my STBXAH out of the house he called a few days later inquiring about our life insurance. He said, that it didn't matter if something happened to me, that He would get all the money. I informed him that I had changed the beneficiary. He was livid. At that point in time, I hadn't changed it, but after that conversation, I did the very next day. I don't know if he had any sinister motives, but it did have me on edge for a while.
Dollydo is right, people in addiction do crazy things....
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Yes, we are still married I do not have the money for a divorce and he refuses to pay for one.
That's strange why is he asking that????
Be careful that is odd.
I wish I knew but I sure am not gonna ask him. I have switched up my regular routine so as not to be so predictable about where I will be at certain times I don't know what else to do.
That's strange why is he asking that????
Be careful that is odd.
I wish I knew but I sure am not gonna ask him. I have switched up my regular routine so as not to be so predictable about where I will be at certain times I don't know what else to do.
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I wouldn't bother asking him either...I mean, what's he gonna say? "Oh, I was just thinking of tampering with your brakes so I could collect when you drive off a cliff."
Is he the type to do things just to mess with your head?
I'm sorry, Angie. That's must be very disturbing. Sheesh. Does this fun never end??
Is he the type to do things just to mess with your head?
I'm sorry, Angie. That's must be very disturbing. Sheesh. Does this fun never end??
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Originally Posted by eveleivibe 
Get an injunction.
"I just want the codeinr only what harm am i doing some smoke cigs some have alcohol whats wrong with me having codeine if it calms me stops me feeling lonely, angry etc. today i didnt have as much n i felt angry reading someones post like i used to on facebook i dont want to go back to reality n feel angry again n yearn for ppls company to be rejected n feel lonely when codeine takes that all away n makes me like being alone n actually reject everyone else instead
PS we're all going to die 1 day aint we."
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Originally Posted by LoveMeNot
You are giving some very serious advice on another person's life. Based on several of your posts.....like this one.....I find it very disturbing.
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Originally Posted by LoveMeNot
You are giving some very serious advice on another person's life. Based on several of your posts.....like this one.....I find it very disturbing.
"I just want the codeinr only what harm am i doing some smoke cigs some have alcohol whats wrong with me having codeine if it calms me stops me feeling lonely, angry etc. today i didnt have as much n i felt angry reading someones post like i used to on facebook i dont want to go back to reality n feel angry again n yearn for ppls company to be rejected n feel lonely when codeine takes that all away n makes me like being alone n actually reject everyone else instead
PS we're all going to die 1 day aint we."
"I just want the codeinr only what harm am i doing some smoke cigs some have alcohol whats wrong with me having codeine if it calms me stops me feeling lonely, angry etc. today i didnt have as much n i felt angry reading someones post like i used to on facebook i dont want to go back to reality n feel angry again n yearn for ppls company to be rejected n feel lonely when codeine takes that all away n makes me like being alone n actually reject everyone else instead
PS we're all going to die 1 day aint we."
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Originally Posted by eveleivibe
Eh? I just thought if he was maybe threatening her maybe its best to get an injunction. I'm sorry i won't say anything in future was just trying to help i wasnt trying to be mean or offensive. Sorry.
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I did go ahead and ask him and although I am still leary he was right I had forgotten that I had told him I was having a hard time paying our sons life insurance but I have mentioned that before and never gotten such a response.
I am still gonna keep my routine switched up for possible safety plus it may be good for me instead of same ole same ole.
eveleivibe, I would have gotten a protection order but honestly what he said is not enough to get one.
I am still gonna keep my routine switched up for possible safety plus it may be good for me instead of same ole same ole.
eveleivibe, I would have gotten a protection order but honestly what he said is not enough to get one.
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