Something is changing!!
 

So I went to see my therapist again today and after 40 mins she stopped and said "do you know you have not talked about him at all."

It was all about me, how I feel, what I need and what I want in MY life. I am no longer looking at his pupils and wondering what the truth is! I am getting to the point, I don't care anymore what he does with his life. Its his to live anyway he wants and my life is mine to live the way I want.

I filed for bankruptcy last week, I am letting the bank take the house because I will not be locked into a 5 year plan (chapter 13) with him. I am angry about our financial situatiion but I also see a sense of freedom that comes with it.

I know I can not be in a marriage without trust and I do not trust him. I doubt I ever will again. I guess that says it all.

LMN,

Your posts sounds upbeat. I mean it sounds like you are ready to start fresh on your own. Sounds good!

LMN...you are on fire girl....go girl go......

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I named my notebook!! I posted it on that thread!!

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congrats..! Bankruptcy and letting go of the house turned out to be such a great and liberating thing for me. Here's to a beautiful new start...

such a self empowering realization, isnt it? :a122:

Your recovery is shining :)

Good for you, LMN! Keep taking care of yourself. You definitely deserve to be loved by your own sweet self!

Sounds like you are coming out of the FoG and making positive steps forward.