I buried my daughter this weekend

Old 08-26-2012, 11:36 PM
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I buried my daughter this weekend

I do not know how or why I write. I am in deep shock still. My eldest daughter was killed on Wednesday. She was going out on a date and a drunk driver ploughed into her car. She died during surgery. I am devestated. The driver of the other car survived and they found traces of coke and alcahol...

I do not know how to feel, I feel like dying! Substances destroy lives, destroy lives, destroy lives!
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Old 08-26-2012, 11:49 PM
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Bobcat,

I am so sorry to hear about your daughter. Please know I'll keep you in my best thoughts and heart. When youre ready, if you're interested, there's an organization for support for people who've lost children. Its a good group, you might look at it when you feel up to it.

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I think it helps to get support from others. It helped me.

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Old 08-27-2012, 12:10 AM
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(((((Bobcat)))))

I am so so sorry for your loss.

I know you are still in shock and probably numb. We are here for you and are walking with you in spirit.

You and your family are in my prayers.

Love and hugs,
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Old 08-27-2012, 12:20 AM
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I'm so sorry Bobcat.

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Old 08-27-2012, 02:04 AM
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I am so very sorry, Bobcat, how tragic and awful this is.

My deepest prayers go out for you and your family and all who loved your daughter.
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Old 08-27-2012, 02:20 AM
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Bobcat,

I am so very sorry to hear about your sweet daughter.

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Old 08-27-2012, 02:22 AM
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So very, very sorry for your loss

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Old 08-27-2012, 02:46 AM
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Oh god I am so sorry for your loss.
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Old 08-27-2012, 03:04 AM
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Prayers for you and your family.
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Old 08-27-2012, 03:33 AM
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Words completely fail on hearing something like this.

Your daughter is in my prayers along with you and your whole family.

Please accept my deepest sympathies.
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Old 08-27-2012, 03:44 AM
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There are no words to heal your anguish, I wish there were. But please know you and your family are in my deepest prayers.
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Old 08-27-2012, 03:59 AM
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(((((Bobcat))))) I am sorry about the loss of your precious daughter. I will be keeping all of you in my prayers.
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:01 AM
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I am so sorry. You and your daughter are in my prayers.
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:04 AM
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Words are inadequate to express the sorrow in my heart for you and all who loved your precious daughter. This is a tragic and senseless loss. You are in my prayers, bobcat.
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:13 AM
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Bobcat....

there really are no words to say other than how sorry I am for the loss of your daughter. I can't even imagine the grief and shock of this.

I feel so much anger towards people that drive with altered states of consciousness. Our laws don't begin to protect us.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:22 AM
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Bobcat, I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter.

My prayers and good thoughts to you and your family.
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:43 AM
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Oh BobCat, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I cannot begin to imagine the pain you must feel. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.

I agree with you, drugs destroy lives everyday and many more than just the addicts.

((( HUGS )))
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:52 AM
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I am so very sorry, what a terrible loss.
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:54 AM
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please allow me to add my sympathy at this great loss ~

prayers of comfort for you & all who love her ~

gentle pink hugs to you,
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Old 08-27-2012, 05:15 AM
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bobcat, my prayers go out to you and your family in this time of senseless loss.
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