dollydo

Worrying about an addict, obsessing about an addict, is all a waste of time, life is too short, we each need to live our own life...for us. Just as the addict does....it is all about them.

Farfalla

I agree...worrying and obsessing about the addict is a waste of time, however, I don't believe you can ever stop worrying about our ALO's. I am currently not living with my qualifier and have a permanent restraining order. I worry about him everyday. I can't turn that off.