SO of addict, still learning
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Sorry to hear gbuehrle.. I've been doing the same for 2 weeks now.
I've no real words of advice as all you can really do is try and be at peace with what is.
Nothing we do say/not do not say is not going to change the outcome. At times, I too have felt that my feelings and actions or lack thereof could be that powerful. But they are not.
Hardest part is feeling so helpless, I know. Take care of yourself.
I've no real words of advice as all you can really do is try and be at peace with what is.
Nothing we do say/not do not say is not going to change the outcome. At times, I too have felt that my feelings and actions or lack thereof could be that powerful. But they are not.
Hardest part is feeling so helpless, I know. Take care of yourself.
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Originally Posted by Spantoh 
Hardly. I had meant reins as in let her dictate whether she wants to contact to me and me not be proactive with that. But thanks though, will read more about codep
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Been noticing some suspicious moves lately.
Has lied about where she has gone to her parents but then came clean about it, her phone randomly "dying" several times a day while she's out, or she loses her keys? Sounds kinda shady to me.
However, just tested at Dr.s office and no drugs. :/
Can anyone share some possible signs of relapse?
Has lied about where she has gone to her parents but then came clean about it, her phone randomly "dying" several times a day while she's out, or she loses her keys? Sounds kinda shady to me.
However, just tested at Dr.s office and no drugs. :/
Can anyone share some possible signs of relapse?
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I love you all. We are not alone. My SOs relapse(he went to rehab today) has brought me to realize how much I need to take care of myself and let him do the same. I hope we all find peace with time. Thank you for your honesty I feel much better tonight.
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