LoveMeNow

I saw my therapist today and it was awesome. Then I saw my husband for dinner and that was really good too.

For the first time, I explained my world as a sick codependent. I told him that it wasn't his fault, this was years in the making. He listened with a shocked expression, got choked up with emotion, and said I AM SO SORRY for the pain I have caused you. blah blah blah

It felt good to be heard, it felt good to explain and it felt good to hear "I am sorry." And although I am no longer blaming him, I must admit - I still liked it.

P.S. I didn't feel guilty or bad telling him I needed and wanted more time. It wasn't about him, it was about me. And he agreed to be patient about asking to come home.

Today was a good day.

KelleyF

Happy for you.... (and him).... Sounds like progress.

Thanks for sharing.

KiteSurfIan

Its great. I was once told to shoot for ordinary...

hope213

good days are good days. i am glad u had one. prayers,