You know how you can tell that Al-anon works?

Old 04-21-2012, 07:49 PM
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You know how you can tell that Al-anon works?

I have only been to 3 meetings but last night I made this observation....the new people look old for their age, tired and just worn down. Their hearts are broken and their spirits are crushed.

The active members have a sparkle in their eye and peaceful aura. They have a bright smile on their face and know how to laugh.

Just an observation I have made! And I can't wait for Monday's meetings!

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Old 04-21-2012, 08:10 PM
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That's what I saw my first meeting too, people who had problems bigger than mine, who were calm and happy and filled with peace. I wanted what they had.

Glad you enjoyed the meeting, this is the beginning of a happier way to live for you.

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Old 04-21-2012, 08:32 PM
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Thank you for your kind words and support! <3

It took me 3 meetings to observe it though. Maybe because I sat and cried through the whole first 2 meetings. lol

What's even sadder (or such a blessing) the group at my first meeting chipped in and bought me the Al-anon book, then people hung around to hug me and comfort me...sharing there stories of pain as inspiration.

Someday, I hope, scratch that, I know I will be able to give back the blessings I received that night. Amazing people!!
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You've just nailed what it's all about. And that peace can't be faked. It is genuine. Keep going back.....it really does work if you work it.

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