Originally Posted by NoelleR

Y'all do realize that this thread is from three years ago...........right?

Originally Posted by britchick

My wife and I have been together 10+ years, we have two sons. She became a drug addict about three years ago. I stuck with her throughout it all even though I knew she was unfaithful to me, and she sold herself to dealers for drugs. She was in recovery most of last year but recently had a bad relapse.she went to rehab this February end and met someone else there. Within a month they have started living together and she says she no longer wants to be with me. I love my wife very much. We have our problems, including codependency, but I never saw this coming. She won't talk to me now except to say she doesn't want me and is happy now. Is this attraction another high for her? Is she being ruled by her need for instant gratification? Or is this really the end for us? I am heartbroken, I admit I have fallen to pieces, I can't work, sleep,eat or even think straight it hurts so much to lose her.
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Originally Posted by Gingersmiles

Just popping on here to say sorry. I am new here and don’t have comforting words or advice they will help as I am in the midst of the exact same situation with fifteen years and a twelve year old daughter he has just walked away from post rehab. He won’t admit there is someone else however our last and only ‘meeting’ suggested so with his distance between us both physically and emotionally. I hope you find peace and joy again. Sleep is hard. Smiling is hard. Seeing forward is often hard. They say it gets easier and I hope that’s true for you, me and everyone going through this.

be well.