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Old 04-10-2012, 01:23 PM
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Dear Higher Power....

Dear Higher Power:

Please give me the strength to ignore non helpful advice.

Please give me the strength to make the right decisions for my future.

Please let me see the "writing on the wall".

Please give me the patience to be non confrontational to my AH, even though I know he's relapsed. It doesn't help me or him to "get it off my chest".
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Please let me be able to shift my high expectations of myself to a realistic doable action.
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Just adding an "Amen" and a hug because you sound like you could use one.
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Thanks Ann. I needed that hug and "amen"
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Thank you for the hugs
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Thanks Lonelywife, hugs from me as well
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Old 04-11-2012, 10:35 AM
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Old 04-11-2012, 11:48 AM
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((lonelywife))

adding my hugs & what helped me was to keep reminding myself . . .

if i wanted something different I had to do something different AND I was worth something different. . .

and so are you my friend!

sweet & gentle PINK HUGS,
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Thanks for the hugs .

My prayers were answered in a strange and huge way. Thank you all for your support. The final straw couldn't have happened more perfectly on Friday.

I hit rock bottom
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