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Old 03-31-2012, 03:46 PM
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Let it go...let him go..get your life together...you are your own worst enemy, you are at least 50% of the problem...please get some help, if you do not, you will either continue this insanity or take up with another loser that you will attempt to save...this is codependency and enabling at its finest.
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Old 03-31-2012, 03:47 PM
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I want God to love me. I want to be a good person. I want to be healthy so I can do something good for the world. Thanks for asking. I only want to God's will and what He wants for me.
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Old 03-31-2012, 03:48 PM
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Maybe I can help others some day. I would like to rescue animals.
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Old 03-31-2012, 03:50 PM
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dollydo, no worries about another looser, I will never be in a relationship again. I made that decision a long time ago. I know I'm disfunctional.
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Old 03-31-2012, 03:53 PM
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Maybe you could try to focus on what you want for a little while rather than what he wants? Realistically you cannot acheive many of those goals while he is sucking the life from you. You could wait and wait and wait and he will never change while youre still enabling him- he doesnt need to! I agree with other posters that you could get a lot from some recovery work, NarAnon or CoDA or whatever, I think it would make a huge difference if you were to commit to it.
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Old 03-31-2012, 03:56 PM
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Thanks, I guess my next step would be to get a sponsor.
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Old 03-31-2012, 04:00 PM
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Helping animals sounds great!
I am sure there are many places to volunteer, just to get started.
And of course, a few meetings (alanon, naranon, or coda) would help you immensely.

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Old 03-31-2012, 04:01 PM
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God does love you...however...in order to get healthy....you must love yourself...first and foremost.

You are no good to anyone unless you are healthy and love yourself.
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