Blogs


Notices

am at a loss

Old 03-05-2012, 01:57 PM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: drogheda
Posts: 7
Smile am at a loss

Hi all posted before but on the wrong forum.am new to this.my husband is 19years sober today I didn't know him as an active user /drinker.in the last 11 years he only went to meetings a handful of times and didn't look after his "illness".he has had addiction after addiction from decks to chatrooms to leaning on a female colleague in work then came the porn when I was pregnant on our second child I then had postal depression and when this was expressed to him he laughed in my face.then came the gym and finally this week came the clenbuterol which I've found out he's been on for mths.when I say all these things came I mean they took hold of him and became addictions and because I loved him I went through counselling etc to try save our marriage.but the last one has totally destroyed me and I can't handle the addict anymore the addict gets.the blame and the husband gets away with it.I really need honest opinions here he' s going to meetings and is an emotional wreck as I've said I don't want to be with him anymore I have absolutely no emotion towards him am just done.thanks for letting me get this off my chest .I hope u all find peace with ur struggles.its just a wonderful site.
anto is offline  
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to anto For This Useful Post:
bamboo38 (03-05-2012), ODAT63 (03-05-2012), Vale (03-05-2012)
Old 03-05-2012, 02:38 PM
  # 2 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Posts: 43
Originally Posted by anto View Post
"the addict gets the blame and the husband gets away with it."
So well said...
bamboo38 is offline  
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to bamboo38 For This Useful Post:
anto (03-05-2012), Vale (03-05-2012)
Old 03-05-2012, 02:48 PM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: drogheda
Posts: 7
Thanks to you both I know what I want and should do just have to find the power to do it.x
anto is offline  
The Following User Says Thank You to anto For This Useful Post:
anvilhead (03-05-2012)

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off




All times are GMT -7. The time now is 01:28 PM.