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Old 02-12-2012, 06:26 PM
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Originally Posted by missgardenarm View Post
Update: we didn't get very far. She went for a walk to make a phone call to a friend about an hour ago, and came back high. I asked her to leave. Watching her do this is so sad...i feel so numb.
You did the right thing. I know it hurts. She's in God's hands now; there's nothing else you can do for her.

Stay safe. Stay strong.

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Old 02-12-2012, 08:24 PM
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Hang in there. It's a tough ride for us too as we detox from the chaos.

Take it easy on yourself. It's very traumatic to let them go.

Damn happy you stuck to your guns. Now the work on you can begin.

Day at a time.
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Old 02-12-2012, 09:57 PM
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I am so sorry for your heartache, the back and forth is torture. But like everyone else said, that's great that you stuck to your boundaries. I give you credit for being that strong. My thoughts and prayers are with you missgardenarm

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Old 02-13-2012, 07:20 AM
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Originally Posted by anvilhead View Post
you realize she WILL call again right? and cry the blues and dangle the "rehab" word again right? an unhealthy pattern has developed now....and you are the only one that can break it. you are not her conduit to recovery....she has to find that path on her own.
Anvilhead's dead on right. She will call. Remember, you need to take care of you.
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Old 02-15-2012, 11:17 AM
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You can only do so much, they have to help themselves at some point.
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