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Old 12-18-2011, 07:56 AM
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My AH was released from a drug treatment facility on 12/6/11. He was supposed to start rehab 12/12/11 but never went. He died in a crack house 12/17/11. This is a man who worked hard most of his life, went to church, loved his children, but he could not stop using drugs. They say addiction leads to hospital, prison and death. Now it's done.
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Old 12-18-2011, 08:08 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss.God bless you
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Old 12-18-2011, 08:16 AM
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(((barblsn))) - I am so very sorry As a recovering crack addict, and one whose XABF also died in a crack house, I don't see that we're bad people, just people who make bad decisions that usually affect others.

You, your kids, and all who love him are in my prayers.

Hugs and prayers,

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Old 12-18-2011, 08:20 AM
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(((barblsn))) -- I am so sorry, there are no words . . . my thoughts and prayers are with you and all those who cared about your husband.
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Old 12-18-2011, 08:39 AM
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I am so very sorry, really drives home the truth...drugs can kill.

Sending hugs and condolences your way.
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I am sorry for your loss. You and the children will be in my thoughts today.
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I am so sorry. I will light a candle for you....
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So sorry. Prayers of peace for you.
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Old 12-18-2011, 09:19 AM
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I am so sorry (((barblsn))). I know there are no words to relieve your pain, just know that we are all here for you, that many of us have felt the same pain and truly understand what a nightmare this must be for you.

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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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Oh Honey~~I am so sorry for your lose. Its so heartbreaking to know the grips that drugs have on addicts. My heart is with you as you travel through the next few days.Hugs~~
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Words seem far too inadequate at times like these....I truly hate this disease. My deepest sympathies to you and all who loved this man.
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My heart breaks for you and your family right now. I am so, so sorry. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Especially as the holiday approaches...prayers for peace somehow, someway.
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hi, im so so sorry to hear this. prayers for you and your family. i know your pain, i lost my ah too.
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So, so sorry he lost his fight. Hugs to you and yours. Will keep you in my prayers
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(((barblsn))

I'm so sorry for your loss; you and your family are in my thoughts & prayers during this time of grief and sadness.
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I'm so sorry for your loss barblsn.

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My sorrow extends to you and your family right now. I am so sorry that you have to go through this terrible trial and loss...

Just know that there are many of us who are thinking of you and who are sending you positive vibes during this very sad time.

Big hugs to you,
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Barb, my heart hurts for you and the kids. I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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