letting go of my daughter...
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Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Poplar Branch, NC
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Originally Posted by pandypoo 
This will be my first post to any kind of chat room so not even sure how this works....I totally relate to sadmamma....today is my addicted daughter's 21st birthday and I have no idea where or how she is....my heart is breaking
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Join Date: Jan 2011
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Sadmamma and Pandypoo,
I am so sorry for the heart break that you are going through. I can feel your pain. I have an AD.
Kindeyes is right..."You can find serenity whether your daughter is using or not."
I am learning that "Change is a process...not an event".
Hugs and prayers to all the parents of addicted loved ones. God bless you all!
I am so sorry for the heart break that you are going through. I can feel your pain. I have an AD.
Kindeyes is right..."You can find serenity whether your daughter is using or not."
I am learning that "Change is a process...not an event".
Hugs and prayers to all the parents of addicted loved ones. God bless you all!
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Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Dallas, TX
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Today its been three weeks that my daughter has been gone. I have had a couple of text msgs that she is ok and plans to turn herself in soon, but nothing else. I am surprised at her actions and realize her resourcefulness. I went to my 1st Al-Anon mtg and it felt very good.
Detatching is very difficult but I am working on it.
Detatching is very difficult but I am working on it.
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Location: Chicago area
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Originally Posted by Chino
Same with me. I've not ever worried to the depths of despair about any of my loved ones, like I have with my daughter, and it started way before addiction. Sometimes I wonder how close I came to developing an identity disorder because mine was so tightly intertwined with hers.
I resembled this.
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