Got to see my granddaughter yesterday...

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Old 08-17-2011, 06:42 AM
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Got to see my granddaughter yesterday...

Drove down to my AD's yesterday to see my granddaughter, and I am so glad I did! I haven't seen her for several months. She starts school tomorrow (junior in high school), and I took her shopping for a few school clothes.

Their living conditions are deplorable. They are in a trailer that should be condemned. It is so hard to keep a smile on my face for my granddaughter. I was just glad to get out of there to take her shopping.

AD was holed up in her bedroom, blankets on the windows and no lights except for a few Christmas lights on one wall. It's depressing. She's been that way for years now, keeping windows covered and it's like living in a damned cave.

My granddaughter is such a pretty talented young lady, and I pray she finds a way out of the life she is currently forced to live. She told me she's putting in job applications at all the restaurants there for a waitressing job, and I told her I was proud of her. It will be her first job.

Her grades have continued to be stellar over the years in school despite the crappy influence of her addict mother, and I know she will continue to do well this year. I finally got a school picture from last year while I was there and just wanted to share it with you.

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Old 08-17-2011, 06:57 AM
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With the encouragement of a Grandma like you, I'm sure she'll do just fine making a new path for her life! Thanks for sharing!
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She's a beautiful young woman. It's amazing how a child can grow up with an addicted parent and still excel...yet others, who grow up in a loving home, fall down the path of addiction.

Your dear granddaughter will be in my prayers (as are you and your AD) that she can continue on a positive path and enjoy a happy life. She is lucky to have a grandmother who can model healthy living.

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She's beautiful Freedom!

Wow, school pics have changed over the years!

I'm glad you had a chance to spend some time with her
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She is lovely Freedom and I'm so glad that she has you....and that you had such a nice time with her. Thats what its all about. Being there and sharing your time.
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Old 08-17-2011, 12:47 PM
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What a strong and lovely girl! I'm glad she has your example of recovery in action, DeVon!!
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Yes, she is lovely. Glad that you had the opportunity to spend some time with her!
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aww I can't see the pic - my work computer blocked it - darnit!

but I'm sure she is lovely!

Glad you got to visit & prayers that she is able to break out & enjoy her life without the chains of addiction holding her down!

PINK HUGS to you!
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Old 08-17-2011, 01:41 PM
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(((DeVon))) - she is beautiful!! I'm sorry for the conditions she's living in, but very glad that she has a g'ma to show her a better way to live. I'm glad you got to spend time with her.

You are all always in my prayers.

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Old 08-17-2011, 06:13 PM
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Beautiful girl! The pic made me smile. Too be young again and have fun with fashion! Her style is ADORABLE. :-)
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Old 08-17-2011, 06:51 PM
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Being...you are so right...what fun her fashion style is...can you imagine me, in that garb? No, just put that thought out of your mind!

I do love it on her, and the hairdo is also so her...that young lady has designed her own style...and, it seems to fit her so well...
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She bears a strong resemblance to her maternal grandmother.
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She bears a strong resemblance to her maternal grandmother.
that is exactly what i thought!!
glad you enjoyed her company
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Old 08-20-2011, 02:06 AM
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Your GD is beautiful and I agree, she is lucky to have a grandmother like you. I'm glad you had a nice time with her.
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Old 08-20-2011, 06:26 AM
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So glad you had a great day with her. She is beautiful and sounds like a strong, capable young lady, inspired by her wonderful grandmother. She is a young lady to watch, and yes I love her style!
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wonderful!!

she knows she has a wonderful grandmother like you...congrats...
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