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Old 08-14-2011, 07:34 PM
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Hi everyone, I'm back home

Hi all,
Just a fast "catch-up" note.

Mr. Moose and I cut short our Summer in Canada, to come home and look after our 29 month old grandson of our oldest AS. While I was up there, I was speaking with the baby momma and it seems the little one was acting out in daycare, and actually smacked a teacher and told her to shut up.

Mr. Moose and I have had sinking feelings about this child's environment since he was about 8 months old. I don't have any proof of anything, but he has NEVER wanted to be returned to the other grandmas home, where he, baby momma, and her half-brother live. He began crying when I returned him there at 8 months. I do know for a fact that the other grandma does not want to watch him very often, and is still angry at her daughter for not getting an abortion. And...the half brother seems kind of sadistic to me, so maybe he slapped the baby and told him to shut up?

He stayed overnight Friday and wasn't even happy to see his mom come to get him, and started screaming and crying in the car as she drove out the driveway. Heartbreaking.

So, anyway, we returned to try to instill some stability in the childs life.
Baby momma doesn't really want our son around his son, so...it's a awful situation...yikes.

Meanwhile...youngest AS in prison in Fla. until 2013 I think......
naturally I am sending money occasionally, but he really doesn't ask, but I know how the story goes by now.

And.oldest son, says he is sober.completely, no alcohol, no drugs, no marijuana....and NO JOB.

So...as you see, nothing has changed much, except for one little loving, sweet child, who doesn't deserve any of this mess.

Love ya all......

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Old 08-14-2011, 08:12 PM
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Hi Moose...glad to hear from you!

You know the drill, nothing changes, if nothing changes!

Did yah see my new BF? He's a real looker!
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Old 08-14-2011, 08:26 PM
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(((Moose))) - glad to see you back, but so sorry for the grandbaby and what seems to be an unhealthy environment. Glad you and (((Mr. Moose))) are able to provide him some stability. I've missed you!!

(((Dolly))) - meant to tell you I LOVE the new bf

Hugs and prayers,

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Old 08-14-2011, 08:47 PM
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Yum Dolly,
He is GORGEOUS!
Not so tall but kinda dark and sure is handsome.
AND...bet he keeps you warm at night...
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Old 08-15-2011, 05:47 AM
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Yeah he is kinda short, but at my age, I figure that I could have done worse...he could be short and bald too! At least I can run my fingers thru his hair!

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Good to hear from you Moose. Your sense of humor has been missed!

I'm sorry to hear of the difficulties with your sweet grandson. It is so difficult when there are children involved. I also have a grandson--the son of my AS. We get to see him one weekend per month. Luckily, he is living in a good, stable environment with his Momma and her family. I don't know what I would do if he was in a stickier situation.

Welcome home.....

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Old 08-15-2011, 12:32 PM
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((Moosie))

How ya been my friend??

Sure have missed ya!

and welcome to the group of "Parents again" aka "Good Lord, This Grandma is tired"

bwah ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

Well That's what this "ReeRee" feels like keeping up with a 7 yr old! I can only imagine a 29 month old! Our Geritol better kick in FAST!!!

But when they flash that smile and give you a hug that could break your ribs - makes it all worth while!

Keep taking such great care of you!

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Old 08-15-2011, 02:08 PM
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Hi Moose -

Been missing you. It sounds like that little fellow is sure lucky to have you and Mr. Moose. It's amazing the difference you can make in a child's life.

Welcome home!
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Old 08-15-2011, 03:47 PM
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Glad you got home safe and sound, Moose, and hope that little grandbaby angel knows how blessed he is to have you.

It's a shame the children are the ones to suffer most.

Keeping you all in my prayers.

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Hi Moose,

Welcome home!

God bless that sweet, baby boy!

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Old 08-15-2011, 05:48 PM
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aww...Ann, I sure missed our yearly visit,
hopefully next year for sure, okay?
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You can count on it, even if I have to come get you in Mooseville.

But first ya gotta do what you gotta do and nobody does it better than our Moose.

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Old 08-15-2011, 05:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Ann View Post

But first ya gotta do what you gotta do and nobody does it better than our Moose.
Yikes! that sure sounds like a Codie quote.
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Old 08-15-2011, 06:42 PM
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I was a wondering if you and Ann had paddled around in the water this summer, guess not, well, there is always next year...or how about in Fl this winter? We keep it warm here for you northerners!
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No Florida for us this winter......
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Old 08-16-2011, 04:26 AM
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Originally Posted by mooselips View Post
Yikes! that sure sounds like a Codie quote.
Noooo!

I mean that you see a small child who needs a voice and someone to care for his best interests.

I say God Bless all the grandmothers, and great grandmothers (like dear Dev), who are caring for the little ones when no one else can. There is a special place in heaven for each of you...save me a seat, will ya?
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