Christen

Hello SR. My husband checked into rehab yesterday, & I am sitting in my terribly quiet house. I don't know what to do. I have been to nar anon in the past. But I'm not ready to talk. I don't want to hear anything about the steps. No offense........ I just feel frozen. I miss my husband.

Thank God he's in rehab. I thank God for many things because the bible says we are to give thanks in all situations.

But right now it hurts. I don't want to have a "pity party". But it hurts so bad.

suki44883

Why not just take a couple of days to just be. Let the feelings come and deal with them as they do. No one says you have to run right out the door and DO anything right now. Take a little time to just process what has happened.

newby1961

I agree take a few days for you I bet its been forever since you have had any down time? At least you know where he is and he is safe. Of course this is an emotional time for you if it wasn't then I would be worried. Get on here as much as you need to and write till it gets out. There are times when meetings do nothing but **** me off, that is not in the least unusual. Hang in there and maybe thank your God for this outcome cause at least now you both have some hope. Keep the Faith. Judy M

litehorse

christen - i agree - take some time for you and process your feelings - there is nothing easy about this situation - my prayers are with you and your husband

wpasierb

I hope you feel less lonely soon. I wish I could feel lonely for the reasons you do. Good luck to you & I will pray for you like I do myself.

Christen

thank you for the responses

wicked

I understand that frozen feeling Christen.
I hope you feel better soon.

Beth