Foreverchanged

Today is my exab's bday. I almost forgot but was reminded somehow. I want to send him an email wishing him a happy birthday. It's been a month since I've had no contact with him. Fighting the urge but just wanted to send him well wishes. Need a little reminder why it's best not to.

sofacat

It's only best not to if you have expectations attached to it.

Now's the time to "pony up". Do you????

outtolunch

He has lied to you. He has stolen from you, He has cheated on you. And I suspect he has not contributed a cent towards supporting his child. And despite this, you have the urge to send him a birthday greeting. What's wrong with this picture?

Foreverchanged

Something is very wrong even for me to consider. It's really troubling to me. It makes me angry I let him affect me in any way.