It's been awhile; positive news about son.

Old 09-24-2010, 01:18 PM
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It's been awhile; positive news about son.

It's been awhile since I posted. I've been lurking seeing the good news and the bad. Today my 23 AS is starting into a program for Abstinance from Methadone. He's been on it about 2 years now, via a clinic in NYC. Was homeless before that and since then has been living in a basement with another 'friend he met'.

As you might expect his life hasn't been great, but with the exception or rotting teeth, HEP C in remission, minor outstanding warrants (loitering, hanging out in drug areas)--he's come through relatively OK.

The last few months he's talked about how disgusted he is with his life. I thought it was just another con, but he made the calls, did the interviews and he's going back in. I say back in because this is a program he walked away from about 3 years ago after about 7 good months.

I told him this is great to hear, but now I don't celebrate until something is completed, not just talked about or started. He knows we've heard to much bull.

Just wanted to share this news. I send blessings to all of those whose journies I've followed online, new and old. When I first started on this forum about 3 years ago, I was a deer in the headlights. For better or worse I've been a seasoned traveler on this journey. I have certainly learned a lot. My son's addiction has been about 6 years.

Be well everyone....prayers to all.

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Old 09-24-2010, 02:44 PM
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that is wonderful that he wants more and is doing what it takes for his recovery
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I'll add you to my ever-growing prayer list, Bruce.... you and your precious son. ((((Hugs))))
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bruce - i am so glad to hear that some positive steps are being taken - you and your son will be in my prayers -
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I'm so glad to hear your news.Brings hope to myself and certainly more faith.
I hope his life gets better with recovery.
My prayers for you.
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Its always wonderful hearing stories toward the road to recovery. positive energy coming your way and your sons....smiles, Bonnie
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Here is to hoping that our kids "get" it this time.

Happy to hear he is taking those positive steps. I hope it gives you some peace.

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(((Bruce))) - SO glad to hear an update from you!! You're a good dad, and you and your son are in my prayers.

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This is indeed good news...and yes, he hasn't completed it yet but there is hope in even the effort to try again.

Keeping you and your boy in my prayers.

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Thank you for sharing your good news. Let's rejoice in today and let's not worry about the "may or may not happens" of the future. Today is bright and I am hopeful for your son. He will be in my prayers and you too!

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It's good to read you, Bruce.

I do understanding having heard all the BS before, and not celebrating anything at this point.
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Good to hear from you and I am very happy that you both are doing well. I've always looked to your wisdom and the compassion you show while still maintaining boundaries. Thank you!
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I think this is very encouraging news.
The fact that he did it all on his own, makes it all the more encouraging.

Hugs and hugs, and thank you for sharing.
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Thanks everyone. It's great to hear from old friends and from new ones. You are all in my prayers.


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Thanks Bruce for sharing the update about your son and also your openness about your own feelings.

I keep you and your son in my thoughts when praying.

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