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Old 09-03-2010, 07:04 AM
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"how can you leave me at the most crucial point in my life?" (after getting out of rehab and relapsing)

"if you leave me, i'm going to get depressed and probably, uh, go back to my 'old ways'."

"my friends don't understand me, my parents don't understand me. no one understands me. be glad you aren't me and feel blessed you have what i don't have. i'm really depressed & there is no end in sight."

you're right. my life is peachy. you're just a JOY to have around and aren't depressing me at all! maybe if you HAD A JOB, DIDN"T LIVE AT HOME, and DIDN"T USE DRUGS ya might find a bit of meaning in yer life. but i know you don't want my 2 cents so


hahaha. . this does feel good! thanks for getting this back going duet
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"i'll pay you back"
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Those Choreboys in my room and car are there so I can clean the bottoms of my shoes off after work. (o..he barely showered but was worried about the BOTTOMS of his shoes...
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Old 09-03-2010, 07:23 AM
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i'll pay you back

How can we miss that one SR? That one was a popular one in my home.

Another hiding place is inside a camera or a money belt. XAH bought a belt with a hidden zipper so he had it safe and secure at all times. I didn't even know they existed.

Another place is in the headliner of his car or the floorboard of the suv or in the liner of his trunk. He had so many hiding places, eventually he became a pro at hiding things from himself. Hence why I'd come home and every single kitchen cupboard door/draw would be open.
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"I'll trade you food for money." (he gets food stamps)

"If I can't find a job, I have no choice but to become a criminal."
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After the "If I can't find a job, I have no choice but to become a criminal." I ask a simple question "Are you looking for a job?" His reply "Why should I look for something that isn't there? Where have you been? There are NO JOBS to be had."

ok.....I know the economy is tough but you can't find something you aren't looking for either.
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Old 09-03-2010, 07:38 AM
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Ah, yes, Callie. The hiding places....

Pockets of shirts hanging in the closet...

Under the floor mats in the truck...

Stuffed into shoes or boots...

Various nooks and crannies in the garage...

And I was as crazy as he was because I spent hours searching for the stash just so I could confront him with the 'truth'

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The hiding places....Pockets of shirts hanging in the closet...
Dang it. Thats MY hiding place for things that I fear will walk away.
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"I swear to God..."

"My buddy..." ( Funny, seems everyone has the name "Buddy" these days. )

"What do you MEAN (fill in the blank)?!"
"I'm doing pretty good lately"
"Its not drugs, its just a pill"
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This one was a personal favorite of mine:

"I TOLD my doctor I was snorting Lortab and he said it was ok..."
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"I don't have a problem" ok, then take this drug test. "i'd fail 'cause I took one percocet" yeah, and I'm the queen of England.
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OMG! What a thread!

Here I go......
Me: (upon noticing jewelry gone): Did you take my jewelry?
Him: No, I haven't been in there.

Me: (after finding said jewelry at pawn shop pawned under his name) You took my jewelry and hocked it.

Him: Well you wouldn't help me so I had to do something!

Heres another:

After confronting him about taking money out of the account:

Him: Well, You treat me like a second class citizen, always asking me if I am doing something, so I decided to do it!

Heres one I heard over and over:

I don't know............
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" I know you'll probably say no but..."
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What about the whoppers we tell ourselves and others as we struggle with codependency? They should be included here too! Like "he's just finding himself"
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I cannot believe you lost your debit card AGAIN MOM....Here let me help you look for it.

Are you sure that is where you put your jewelry? maybe you moved it somewhere else.

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What about the whoppers we tell ourselves and others as we struggle with codependency? They should be included here too! Like "he's just finding himself"
Maybe we should start another one..Famous Last Word (of codependents)
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"I have no idea how that got there! Someone must have put it there!"

Oh, and love the "I'll pay you back!" Unfortunately, still going throught the nightly "trips to Wal Mart" lasting hours long. Ugh, this sucks so bad.
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"I swear to God..."

"My buddy..." ( Funny, seems everyone has the name "Buddy" these days. )

"What do you MEAN (fill in the blank)?!"
"I'm doing pretty good lately"
"Its not drugs, its just a pill"
They do seem to all of a sudden have a LOT more friends when they are using.

My AS was looking for a job and he kept getting a lot of calls late. One night some guy called our home phone (usually it was son's cell) after midnight. I answered and he asked for son in a stoned voice. Later when I asked my son who it was he said "Someone about a job." I said "After midnight?"

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Originally Posted by Callie View Post
[COLOR="Red"] He had so many hiding places, eventually he became a pro at hiding things from himself. Hence why I'd come home and every single kitchen cupboard door/draw would be open.
bet you thought youn only had a poltergeist, didnt ya?
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When some needles appeared in a motel room:
    And then he took them to the manager and got the room comp-ed in the morning!! AS-IF

    "Why do you keep erasing my cellphone log?" When I know it was him, and then he started erasing mine and blaming it on me too!

    "I was up all night because I drank a whole pot of coffee at "buddy"
    s house" Said buddy later sold him out wanting a date.... lmao

    "I TOLD you about {this or that} YOU just don't remember - you're crazy!!" yeah, it was me = I was the "psycho" one. He's in jail for beating up his baby mamma right now.
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