Someone hand me the fly swater....
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Someone hand me the fly swater....
I have been doing my best to hold my tongue and not go off but exabf keeps finding ways to contact me. He showed up at the door, unannounced, of course. He didn't make a big stink but left a note that said, "Hey-I have been trying to contact you. Wanna know if you are okay. I miss you." I have been ignoring all of his calls and blocked his emails on FB.
He is like a fly.... swarming around and just won't leave it alone. I have clearly told him how is addiction has affected me and that I'm no longer interested in dating him. I don't miss him at all. I love my peace. I'm alone.....but at peace.
But his persistence is baffling to me. He wasn't this persistent when using and/or in the process of recovery.
Idk...seems like the same manipulative BS to me. Maybe I don't have a heart but I could give two craps about him.
Still struggling with not letting this go any sooner.
He is like a fly.... swarming around and just won't leave it alone. I have clearly told him how is addiction has affected me and that I'm no longer interested in dating him. I don't miss him at all. I love my peace. I'm alone.....but at peace.
But his persistence is baffling to me. He wasn't this persistent when using and/or in the process of recovery.
Idk...seems like the same manipulative BS to me. Maybe I don't have a heart but I could give two craps about him.
Still struggling with not letting this go any sooner.
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I have been keeping all contacts. That will be the next step if it continues. I blasted him today because he had the audacity to ask, "Are we really broken up? Is it really over? Are we really done?" Yes..... REALLY. I don't know why he is shooo shocked. Did he not think his stupidity and addiction would lead up to this? Is he that stupid? My gosh!
Sorry, just ranting. I have so much pent up anger and I'm trying to work through it but then again....why am I so angry? I knew this would come.
Sorry, just ranting. I have so much pent up anger and I'm trying to work through it but then again....why am I so angry? I knew this would come.
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Sounds like someone needs a punching bag instead of a fly swatter! 
Heck, I'd be willing to share the cost and usage of one with ya, if we lived closer (I'm just outside of Atlanta)
Just remember all the things that are making you angry now the next time you have moment of second guessing yourself.
Heck, I'd be willing to share the cost and usage of one with ya, if we lived closer (I'm just outside of Atlanta)
Just remember all the things that are making you angry now the next time you have moment of second guessing yourself.
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Ha I live in NJ but coming to ATL end of July. Maybe we can go by a gym and punch our frustrations away.
Yeah.... I do have to get better with going with when I second guess myself. I'm pretty bad at following my gut. Uggh!
Yeah.... I do have to get better with going with when I second guess myself. I'm pretty bad at following my gut. Uggh!
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