One small step
 

can make a big difference.

In regards to my previous post I did as suggested and blocked my EXABF phone number, no more phone calls or texts. He's not in touch with me often any how but at least I don't have to wonder about why he's not calling. Now if he does decide to call, which would only be for money or a favor, then I won't be upset from hearing from him. It's good, no more worries he's completely out of my life now.

I also took the advice and wrote off the $70 he owes me, after over a month it's pretty clear I won't be getting that back. I'm such a fool for helping but never again. And it's hard but you're right, if he has something as serious as a felony that's his own deal and his own problem.

It sucks losing out on money but 70 is better than thousands or even hundreds. Thanks for the advice everyone.

Good job, Soleus! Way to take care of YOU!!!

Good job! And the $70 is nothing compared to what many As do - Thousands is the norm, not the exception.