My AH died today

Old 04-14-2010, 10:37 PM
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My AH died today

I don't post here too often. My AH moved out earlier this year and had been doing a good job of proving to me that he was clean and sober. But he died this morning at his mom's home. We don't know the cause of death yet...waiting for the report from the coroner.

I want to say thank you to all of you. I have learned so much from all of you and your stories. I wish you and your loved ones the best of health and happiness.
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(((I'm done with it)))

I'm sorry for your loss. Please know I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts.

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Old 04-15-2010, 01:20 AM
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i'm sorry, my deepest thoughts and condolences go out to you and your family. you all are in my prayers.
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I am so deeply sorry, my prayers go out for you and all who loved him.

Please know we are here and we care. These next few days will be difficult and it may help you to vent/share/grief with those who understand what you have been through.

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Old 04-15-2010, 02:52 AM
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I am so very sorry to hear this. I'm sure you must be in shock right now. Please lean on people around you to get thru this and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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I'm also very sorry for your loss..it must still be a terrible shock to you...

You are also in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
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Old 04-15-2010, 03:40 AM
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I'm Done With It: You are in my thoughts and prayers today and for this next phase of your life. Please let us know how things are going for you.

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Old 04-15-2010, 03:52 AM
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My deepest sympathies on your lost. May you be supported during this time by the love of family and friends.
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Old 04-15-2010, 04:22 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure you are in shock. There are no right words to say right now. I am so sorry.
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Old 04-15-2010, 05:29 AM
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Old 04-15-2010, 05:50 AM
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Prayers for you and family.
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Old 04-15-2010, 05:59 AM
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Please accept my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

I will keep you and the family in my thoughts and prayers. I'm sure you will have many, many things to do thru the next few days - please try to take good care of yourself and know that your SR family is here for you if you need us.

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Old 04-15-2010, 06:00 AM
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I am genuinely sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in the best memories of your AH.
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Old 04-15-2010, 06:06 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. Peace to you.
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Old 04-15-2010, 06:39 AM
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Old 04-15-2010, 07:30 AM
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My deepest sympathies to you and your family, friend.

I guess in a way I hope you hear his death was merely an act of God and had nothing to do with his addiction. He was clean and sober recently for whatever his motivation and wouldn't that be a better way to remember him.

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Old 04-15-2010, 07:48 AM
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Once upon a time, my ABF died suddenly. About 3 months after I had finally been fed up enough to toss him out of my life. Fortunately I had been "done with it" before it killed him. I had mourned the loss of him before he passed away.

I'm so sorry for your and your family's loss of a loved one.

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Old 04-15-2010, 08:21 AM
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I'm so sorry Donewith it.....My deepest sympathy and hugs that you can go forward yourself. This addiction thing is just too much to handle. Hugs, Bonnie and prayers for your hubbys family and friends.
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Just wanted to add my sincere sympathies also.

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Old 04-15-2010, 08:55 AM
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My prayers are with you.

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