He's got another thing coming
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He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I'm over it and all is well....He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will continue to support him and his habits and addictions...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will allow his addiction to continue to affect my life and the lives of my children...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks his 'modifications' are enough... He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will pat him on the back for doing (partly) what he is suppose to do...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will accept his unacceptable behavior just because he's off the opiates...he's got another thing coming
If he thinks I trust him...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I don't have the strength or guts to do what must be done...He's about to find out!!
If he thinks I will continue to support him and his habits and addictions...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will allow his addiction to continue to affect my life and the lives of my children...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks his 'modifications' are enough... He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will pat him on the back for doing (partly) what he is suppose to do...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will accept his unacceptable behavior just because he's off the opiates...he's got another thing coming
If he thinks I trust him...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I don't have the strength or guts to do what must be done...He's about to find out!!
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Great! I find it helpful to write down an action plan when I am ready to make changes or work towards a challenging goal in my personal OR my professional life.
GOAL
Action #1
Action #2
Action #3
so on and so forth
It gives me something to fall back on in moments of weakness.
This is not about your AH. This is about you and what you want out of life. So glad for you that you feel like you are ready to reach out and make the life you and your children deserve!
GOAL
Action #1
Action #2
Action #3
so on and so forth
It gives me something to fall back on in moments of weakness.
This is not about your AH. This is about you and what you want out of life. So glad for you that you feel like you are ready to reach out and make the life you and your children deserve!
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Originally Posted by endangered 
If he thinks I'm over it and all is well....He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will continue to support him and his habits and addictions...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will allow his addiction to continue to affect my life and the lives of my children...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks his 'modifications' are enough... He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will pat him on the back for doing (partly) what he is suppose to do...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will accept his unacceptable behavior just because he's off the opiates...he's got another thing coming
If he thinks I trust him...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I don't have the strength or guts to do what must be done...He's about to find out!!
If he thinks I will continue to support him and his habits and addictions...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will allow his addiction to continue to affect my life and the lives of my children...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks his 'modifications' are enough... He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will pat him on the back for doing (partly) what he is suppose to do...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I will accept his unacceptable behavior just because he's off the opiates...he's got another thing coming
If he thinks I trust him...He's got another thing coming
If he thinks I don't have the strength or guts to do what must be done...He's about to find out!!
Guess what? YOU have another thing coming too.......
it's a life filled with better choices that will bring YOU peace and tranquility
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Changing the way you think about your position in the relationship is a good thing.
Even the tiniest of predators can eat a wooly mammoth sized meal...on bite at a time.
It takes motivation backed up with some serious tenacity - and your post is swimming in it! BRAVO!!
Alice
Even the tiniest of predators can eat a wooly mammoth sized meal...on bite at a time.
It takes motivation backed up with some serious tenacity - and your post is swimming in it! BRAVO!!
Alice
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Originally Posted by endangered
If he thinks I will pat him on the back for doing (partly) what he is suppose to do...He's got another thing coming
!!
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why do they all expect that?????
"Gosh dang hon, thank you for fulfilling the basic requirements of being a semi-productive, responsible adult!!!!
lol.
Well said endangered!
Love,
Cess
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