The bud has blossomed!!

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Old 12-13-2009, 06:10 PM
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The bud has blossomed!!

For over a year, I have been living with an addict. The time came for a mental hospital and the promise of rehab. (did I mention promise of rehab?) Finally after all this time, I found out that even when he does not use, he drinks and there have been "women". He has been gone for over a week (my choice) and I am not looking back. I am taking care of myself and my two children and that is all I need. I have a great family, WONDERFUL friends and a desire to live a happy and fulfilled life DRAMA FREE. He called to get some papers the other day (ones I know he can reprint) and I left it outside with all my doors LOCKED. I know how that has ended in the past and I was not letting it happen again. I am done for me, my children and my own well being. I have chemotherapy in my future and need my strength for ME. Happy days to come..........

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Old 12-13-2009, 06:56 PM
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I admire your strength and courage to put you and your children before someone else's addiction. Please check in and let us know how it goes with you because we will be thinking of you.
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Old 12-14-2009, 01:42 AM
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Hugs to you, Kiki, for the courage that took and for what is yet to come for you.

Just know that we are here to share as you go. Keeping you in my prayers.

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Good for you, ((Kiki))!!!

Please do keep your focus on you and your kids. He is, more than likely, going to try harder to win you back, but you are wiser now.

Big hugs and prayers!

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Old 12-14-2009, 05:34 AM
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Thanks you to all! I will keep you updated.
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