PLEASE HELP!!! BF ALCOHOL/COKE - Need Advice PLease !!!!!!

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11-29-2009, 12:08 PM

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barblsn

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Location: buffalo ny

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Originally Posted by change4penny

Secondly, don't be the girl that thinks, "I can love him through this", cause it won't work. He's in love with the drug and has no ability to love you the way you deserve to be loved.
Penny

If love were the answer, there would be no need for Nar Anon or SoberRecovery. I remember my RAH telling me in the throws of his use "just because I'm doing this doesn't mean I don't love you". WHAT THE H**L? That makes it ok????

ANYWAY...my standard advice: Take care of you, focus on you, because you are the only one you can effectively change. And you deserve to be treated well.

11-29-2009, 11:04 PM

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overtime

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Join Date: Nov 2009

Location: taunton ma

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you story sounds like you were my old gf. She dont talk to me anymore cuz i kept promising to get clean. I was lying to her. When i used a gain I had to lie to her. I didnt want to lose her. Once she left, it wasent a fall off the wagon. more like a dive.
good luck