Help!!!!!
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Boston, MA
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Help!!!!!
Hi Everyone, I am new to this site and need to talk to SOMEONE. My boyfriend just relapsed today on crack and he has been gone for 3 hours and I am going out of my mind. I can't talk to any of my friends cause they just done understand or even know about it. If threre is anyone who might be going through the same or who has been there done that PLEASE hit me up....
Thanks!!!!! Sad in Boston and dont know what to do - very scared he will end up in jail or dead.....UGH!!!!!
Thanks!!!!! Sad in Boston and dont know what to do - very scared he will end up in jail or dead.....UGH!!!!!
Heathen
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: La La Land, USA
Posts: 2,567
I don't have advice, as I was the crackhead in my relationship.. however I'm just compelled to ask why you would want to be with someone who disappears on crack binges? If he's not in jail or dead, next time he could be. When is it unacceptable to YOU to have this in your life?
Nature Girl
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: By The Lake
Posts: 60,328
Welcome, CNice. When you get a minute to calm down, take a read around and maybe it will help you to see what has worked or not worked for most of us.
We may not be able to do anything about their addiction, but we can find a better way of living for ourselves. Sounds easy, I know it took me forever to take my focus off my son's addiction and put it on my own recovery, but once I did, I was able to breathe again and live a happier life.
Glad you joined us, hope you'll stick around and keep sharing.
Hugs
We may not be able to do anything about their addiction, but we can find a better way of living for ourselves. Sounds easy, I know it took me forever to take my focus off my son's addiction and put it on my own recovery, but once I did, I was able to breathe again and live a happier life.
Glad you joined us, hope you'll stick around and keep sharing.
Hugs
Member
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: buffalo ny
Posts: 167
Welcome C,
My husband didn't stop using crack until he got arrested and spent 2 years in a state prison. And when he finally got arrested, I was so relieved. I knew he was safe, and so was I.
You can't stop his use. You need to focus on you.
My husband didn't stop using crack until he got arrested and spent 2 years in a state prison. And when he finally got arrested, I was so relieved. I knew he was safe, and so was I.
You can't stop his use. You need to focus on you.
grateful rca
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: atlanta, ga.
Posts: 4,671
welcome c, glad you found us, sorry about your bf. my husband is a crack addict too. i also agree with the others. he's not gonna stop until he's ready until thin, his addiction will get progressively worse.
time to focus on you. you and yours are in my prayers.
time to focus on you. you and yours are in my prayers.
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Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Wishin' I was on the Beach!
Posts: 1,415
WELCOME C!! Glad you're here... this place is full of information and support.
Be sure to read the sticky posts at the top of the forum... especially "What Addicts Do".
The more you learn about addiction, the better choices you'll be able to make.
Keep reading and posting! It will help you so much as you sort things out.
Be sure to read the sticky posts at the top of the forum... especially "What Addicts Do".
The more you learn about addiction, the better choices you'll be able to make.
Keep reading and posting! It will help you so much as you sort things out.
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