whereami

I have an appointment tomorrow with the court house to explain my situation and try to get child support and hopefully full custody. My ex has a new girl in his life, married with kids and found it necessary to call me and tell me what a horrible person I am throwing him away...so much drama over there...so it is a blessing, he won't bother me and hopefully she will see soon that he is an addict and uses and manipulates and I am hoping she sees that before leaving her family. I am going to put everything I can in the papers explaining the drugs he takes and why i left and what he has done since we have been apart as far as support. I really wish he would have gotten help, but he found a sugar mama...so it continues for him...I will focus on what I need to do and everything will fall into place...Yeah it hurt a bit but I will be ok...I just hugged my peanut tonite and remember she is worth everything and more...

Abundance

Not only is your little one worth it and all...... but so are YOU!

And who knows what is going on over there. When my xah got involved with a stripper...... I got a message with her calling her little 5 year old a "b!tch" in the back ground. I just thought - thank goodness - that is not my life!

You are a great mom and you are providing for your family the best care you can possibly give and it starts by removing the addiction out of their childhood!

xo

outtolunch

Thanks for the update. You will indeed be OK.

losingmyfriend

Hi, dont know your full story, but it appears you've taken some great steps, and I know it wasnt easy. I may be in your situation someday, going to court, that is. Take care and god bless. Rosee

breakingfree88

I'm really proud of you for being such a great mom by taking care of yourself and your little one. You really are helping their childhood. A peaceful house is nice, isn't it??
I wish you the best in getting full custody and hope you'll keep us updated.
Love,
Holly

whereami

The child support is filed and I am on the waiting list for pro bono work so that I can file custody. I don't care what goes on over there, all I care about is keeping her safe and each day, I have been taking care of us. It will get better bit by bit financially, but at least the sanity, happiness, and safety are here. Today we ate a great dinner, played all night and settled happily...I am so thankful for this new life.