winnie12

KJ - that was beautiful - and i think defines what true intimacy is.

rebec

Yes KJ, that was great. I am not a recovering addict. Had some issues as a younger person but I believe with maturity that went away. I have had a very hard time with love and men especially. U know the upbringing we had. I have yet to fine someone who loves me just for me and willing to get to know me and see I am sweet and kind. The RA I met said he wanted to try and meet someone in recovery just like him. I am in recovery but Al-anon. Was out of it for 10 years. Just got back in because of my 2 short lived sort of relationships I got into recently. At least I know now I needed to Let Go and Let God on both. I use to hold on so tight I hung myself most of the time. So I am growing. I will say though I am totally understanding these people now. It took this long. sigh! Thanks

Abundance

KJ.... well said.

THAT is how I would think it to be of someone doing well in recovery.