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Old 05-15-2009, 02:33 AM
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Keep your eye on the goal.....peace and serenity. Try not to be distracted by the drama.

BTW, one of my huge Aha-moments was when I realized how often I had been manipulated by the words, " but, I love you." He always knew he could hook me with that......until I finally made a real decision to move on, love or no love. It wasn't, after all, about love. It was about respect.

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Old 05-15-2009, 05:05 AM
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i think its hysterical that he was trying to get sympathy and people on his side and it just blew up in his face.
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Old 05-15-2009, 05:29 AM
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Originally Posted by kj3880 View Post
OH, I didn't know when you said that you had a business together that it meant you would have to actually work in close proximity, like in the same room, with AH all day. I thought maybe it was like the business I had with an ex, which involved real estate and only occasional contact. This sounds very hard to do, this continual contact. You must be a very patient person. Maybe it will get easier with time. Me, I'd be having to chant the serenity prayer over and over all day long..lol

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Indeed I've been praying. I've never considered myself a patient person... but by the grace of God... I'm learning.

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Keep your eye on the goal.....peace and serenity. Try not to be distracted by the drama.

BTW, one of my huge Aha-moments was when I realized how often I had been manipulated by the words, " but, I love you." He always knew he could hook me with that......until I finally made a real decision to move on, love or no love. It wasn't, after all, about love. It was about respect.

Stay strong,
Babs
Me too! I love confirmations and it IS about moving on... respecting yourself... they aren't gonna do it!

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i think its hysterical that he was trying to get sympathy and people on his side and it just blew up in his face.
I didn't see it that way... but you're RIGHT... why else would he pull other people into the drama... I love learning new lessons. Thanks.
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