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03-11-2009, 09:22 PM

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Chino

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Originally Posted by UNHAPPY777

Now the new task is getting him to understand that his chances are greater of dying by staying on drugs than detoxing.

You can point that out if he doesn't already understand, but it doesn't matter unless he accepts and wants to do something about it.

We can't make anyone understand or accept anything.

03-12-2009, 10:55 AM

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I agree Chino But, I would be less than a wife to at lease put it out there. Will he listen, will he change, will he get help.... I don't know only he can answer these questions...

03-12-2009, 12:01 PM

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Thanks for the reminder. Because I do often get sucked in by the wife things but, then reality hits me in the face and I remember all the husband duties that I am doing that he should be doing.....