1 Month today
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1 Month today
It has been 1 month today that you died and it seems like a million years since I saw you face or heard your voice. I hope your suffering is over and are happy being with gram and pap. God only knows how much Danny, dad, and I miss and love you. You were loved when you were here and you are still loved now.
Mum
God bless and keep your dear, beautiful son.
Grief will fold you in for a long while, Maggiemac. No one will expect anything from you, everyone in your life knows you are in the depths of the most terrible grief imaginable. So please do just try to keep breathing and making it from morning to night.
Sending love and sympathy from Oregon to wherever you are tonight. Your son is at peace and he will know your love always.
Bluejay
Grief will fold you in for a long while, Maggiemac. No one will expect anything from you, everyone in your life knows you are in the depths of the most terrible grief imaginable. So please do just try to keep breathing and making it from morning to night.
Sending love and sympathy from Oregon to wherever you are tonight. Your son is at peace and he will know your love always.
Bluejay
I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your dear son. I just want to let you know I'm one of the many thinking about you tonight. Take it easy, don't expect too much of yourself right now, you need this time to grieve. It's always difficult losing a loved one, but the sudden way you lost him is a little harder to bear, and less understandable to you and many. I'm sorry he didn't make it Maggie.
God Bless and comfort you,
NH7
God Bless and comfort you,
NH7
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: CA
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Be gentle with yourself. My son died eight months ago from a heroin overdose. I was the one who found him in his bedroom. I completely understand what you are going through. Allow yourself to grieve for however long it takes. There is no timetable. And know, that even after several months have passed and you think you are getting much better, you will spontaneously combust into tears for the slightest reason and that is ok. Right after my son died, a minister told me that it is all right to cry as much as I want because those are God's tears.
I am thinking of you and praying for you. This is a very difficult time of year for both of us. Take care of yourself.
I am thinking of you and praying for you. This is a very difficult time of year for both of us. Take care of yourself.
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