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Old 12-19-2008, 05:34 AM
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It has been 1 month today that you died and it seems like a million years since I saw you face or heard your voice. I hope your suffering is over and are happy being with gram and pap. God only knows how much Danny, dad, and I miss and love you. You were loved when you were here and you are still loved now.
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Old 12-20-2008, 04:54 PM
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It takes time, Maggiemac, so please don't be hard on yourself for still being sad. I'm so sorry for your pain and I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 12-20-2008, 05:12 PM
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God bless and keep your dear, beautiful son.

Grief will fold you in for a long while, Maggiemac. No one will expect anything from you, everyone in your life knows you are in the depths of the most terrible grief imaginable. So please do just try to keep breathing and making it from morning to night.

Sending love and sympathy from Oregon to wherever you are tonight. Your son is at peace and he will know your love always.

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Old 12-20-2008, 06:06 PM
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I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your dear son. I just want to let you know I'm one of the many thinking about you tonight. Take it easy, don't expect too much of yourself right now, you need this time to grieve. It's always difficult losing a loved one, but the sudden way you lost him is a little harder to bear, and less understandable to you and many. I'm sorry he didn't make it Maggie.

God Bless and comfort you,
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Sending gentle hugs and prayers to you! :ghug :ghug
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Hugs and prayers. You are a strong woman.
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Hugs and prayers for peace and comfort. We're here 24/7 if you need someone to listen.
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Old 12-21-2008, 04:46 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers.
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Old 12-21-2008, 05:18 AM
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Sending my prayers and hugs out to you this morning.
May God bless and comfort you.

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Old 12-21-2008, 03:38 PM
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Be gentle with yourself. My son died eight months ago from a heroin overdose. I was the one who found him in his bedroom. I completely understand what you are going through. Allow yourself to grieve for however long it takes. There is no timetable. And know, that even after several months have passed and you think you are getting much better, you will spontaneously combust into tears for the slightest reason and that is ok. Right after my son died, a minister told me that it is all right to cry as much as I want because those are God's tears.
I am thinking of you and praying for you. This is a very difficult time of year for both of us. Take care of yourself.
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Old 12-22-2008, 01:03 PM
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Sending hugs and prayers to you and your family. May you and your family find the comfort and blessings that you deserve.

Please take care of yourself and the others who love you.
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