hopingicanhelp

Hey...just here to update, I'm still done!!! Yay!! It's been kinda rough, but I myself have had no contact whatsoever w/ him. The night I left him he continued to call my phone and text me nonstop..even texted a threat of stalking me which I am saving to show the police if he actually starts. The next day I got my # changed. He still knows my parents home # where I live, and he knows my work # and where I work..BUT he can't drive me insane w/ calling my personal phone 500 times a day. He only called my parents phone that one 1st night and my mom told him not to call back so far he listened. And last night I was worried about him coming to my work b/c I work for taco bell as a mgr. and I was working till 3 am...and he knew my schedule...but he only called, twice, and I'm having ppl screen my calls...I didn't talk to him and he didn't called back. If he comes to my job he will be escorted away by the police I am DONE, and I'm not going to let me control my life anymore...so for his benefit I hope he stays away because I will get a restraining order if I have to and I will enforce it w/ the police...and the police where I work really like us b/c we feed them for free..lol. Just an update, best wishes to everyone else I will keep yall posted..>!!!!

Chino

Good for you! If you find yourself caving even one bit be sure to come back or hit up an Alanon meeting ASAP.

rozied

I am so proud of you, horray. You sound so strong. Noone has the right to hurt us or do things to us that instill fear. I am so glad you will have him arrested if he bothers you.
Keep coming back.

outtolunch

Now here is someone with a plan and a plan B. Good job.

greeteachday

Good for you!! I really like how you saved the text just in case and you have people (potential witnesses) screening any call for you. So glad you have a plan and are sticking to it - you deserve the best!