OT update on the robbery
I found out, when I talked to my store manager that my friend (and mgr who was on duty with me that night-he was pepper-sprayed) was locked up for "something" on his record, but it didn't sound too bad.
My friend, Desirae, that works in the other store, calls me last night and said "did you know D was arrested for an old MURDER WARRANT"....uh, no I didn't know that.
I know how the rumor mill gets totally out of control at work, so I'm taking a "wait and see" attitude. This man has been a good friend to me, helped me with my resume, and has given me lots of good advice on how to deal with things at work, and about getting another job.
He also goes out of his way to talk to the cops who come in to eat, so that doesn't sound like someone who is avoiding an old murder warrant.
I go back to work tonight, will get off at 1 a.m. I'm using my recovery tools to stay out of the BS about D. I don't like it when rumors get spread about ME, and I won't be a part of spreading them about anyone else.
This is a big improvement for me...I ususally get in on ALL the gossip, but I'm just too old and too tired of it to get into it any more.
I'm only working a few hours, then have my regular 2 nights off. I've gotten several phone calls from people I used to work with at the other store, wanting to make sure I was okay.
I'm alive, I have some awesome friend (here and f2f), and in 2 days I will have 19 months clean. Life is good, even if you get whacked upside the head with a gun....just a little reminder to enjoy every day and make the most of it
Hugs and prayers!
Amy
My friend, Desirae, that works in the other store, calls me last night and said "did you know D was arrested for an old MURDER WARRANT"....uh, no I didn't know that.
I know how the rumor mill gets totally out of control at work, so I'm taking a "wait and see" attitude. This man has been a good friend to me, helped me with my resume, and has given me lots of good advice on how to deal with things at work, and about getting another job.
He also goes out of his way to talk to the cops who come in to eat, so that doesn't sound like someone who is avoiding an old murder warrant.
I go back to work tonight, will get off at 1 a.m. I'm using my recovery tools to stay out of the BS about D. I don't like it when rumors get spread about ME, and I won't be a part of spreading them about anyone else.
This is a big improvement for me...I ususally get in on ALL the gossip, but I'm just too old and too tired of it to get into it any more.
I'm only working a few hours, then have my regular 2 nights off. I've gotten several phone calls from people I used to work with at the other store, wanting to make sure I was okay.
I'm alive, I have some awesome friend (here and f2f), and in 2 days I will have 19 months clean. Life is good, even if you get whacked upside the head with a gun....just a little reminder to enjoy every day and make the most of it
Hugs and prayers!
Amy
Life is good, even if you get whacked upside the head with a gun....just a little reminder to enjoy every day and make the most of it
Thanks for sharing your journey with us.
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