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rozied 08-23-2008 06:22 AM

Letter Mailed
 
Well I finally mailed that letter yesterday. I have absolutely no expectations about it. I wrote to tell him how I feel & about his grandmother's health.
Whatever he does is entirely up to him.

marle 08-23-2008 06:53 AM

No Expectations. Good for you, Rozied. Hugs, Marle

greeteachday 08-23-2008 07:10 AM

((((Rozied))))
Glad you said what you felt and do not have expectations. keep taking good care of yourself. :hug:

CatsPajamas 08-23-2008 07:12 AM

NO expectations is a good thing. Do you feel a bit lighter and free-er for having sent it?

Have a wonderful Saturday!

Cats

Impurrfect 08-23-2008 07:38 AM

(((Rozied)))

I'm glad you were able to send it with no expectations.

Hugs and prayers!

Amy

Freedom1990 08-23-2008 09:41 AM

As always, keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, dear lady :)

pjbs55 08-23-2008 12:09 PM

Rozied,
I am glad you sent it and aren't expecting anything in return. You did what you had to for you, hopefully it might sink in.
Hugs,

NeedingHelp7 08-23-2008 03:44 PM

Hoping for the best rozied! I hope you feel better too!

NH7

BBD 08-23-2008 05:42 PM

I'm just glad you mailed it rozied~~now you can let go of those thoughts and leave the rest to your HP...Smiles, Bonnie

rozied 08-24-2008 06:15 AM

I feel fine, its so much better when you are not a part of the drama.

NeedingHelp7 08-24-2008 07:36 AM

rozied, when I was talking to one of AS probation officers on the phone other day from court, I asked that he would give my AS a few messages for me before going to jail, and the order of protection set in place.
The PO told me "he's heard it all before, it has to come from with in him." I said "I know." We as mothers think we have to be right in there directing our children no matter what age. If we don't say something, how is he going to know? If we say something we feel guilty, or they try to make us feel guilty.

No matter the outcome, you did the right thing for you.

You're right it feels so much better when not in the drama. There is Peace!

Huggs,
NH7


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